Bound by Consent: A Novice's Guide to the Safe, Sane, and Consensual World of BDSM

BDSM can seem overwhelming for beginners. As a professional and responsible practitioner, I am here to shed some light on this complex world.

We will start with the most fundamental pillar of BDSM – Consent. Every scene, every act, every dynamic in BDSM revolves around consent. It's what distinguishes BDSM from abuse.

As we progress, you'll learn about the importance of communication and negotiation, about safe words, and about understanding your own boundaries and limits.

Stay tuned as I share tips on how to ensure your first venture into BDSM is a positive and enriching experience. I'll guide you through the initial steps – from finding the right partner, understanding the difference between a Dominant and a submissive, to preparing for your first scene.